Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile. Personality
: 11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your resent happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. when you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy. Last but not the least:
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about. Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose………

APJ's formula

APJ’ s formula

1.Clarity of goal

Where r u

Where u’ve to go

Clear route

2. Develop knowledge

Be aptitude

Books

Listening skills

Teachers

Family and social envolment

3. dedication

To reach your goal try all routes with dedication

Mission with vision

4.balanced hard work with discipline

USE OR LOOSE

Talent / energy /power  : USE OR LOOSE

Psychology : MYTH OR REALITY

                                    Logic or reality

 You are what you think

 Believe in your own abilities

 Thinking à worshiping/wishing(process)  to reach what you need/want

Psychology (human behaviour) : science of mind and behaviour

Personality : individuality, uniqueness

Emotions : feelings

Attitude : dis portion of thoughts ( approachability)

Ethics and values:

Perception(view)

Learning

Motivation

Disorders

stress

 

will power

fix easy goals initially

 eating ,gyming

getting up morning early etc

fulfill it and keep hard goals and try to make them well

thus enhance your will..

don’t be light minded

how to be resourceful

Attitude, websites ,books ,library resource ,media

psychology is decided by brain ( between ears and behind eyes)

Emotions (movement of mind)

A moving of the mind or soul;

excitement of the feelings,

whether pleasing or painful;

Disturbance or agitation of mind caused by a

specific exciting cause and manifested by

some sensible effect on the body

major emotions : happiness , sadness, surprise, aversion/disgust, anger , fear

happiness

•         Happiness -Happiness is a positive emotion. It is an expression of pleasure, contentment, good-luck or good fortune.

ü      Increases blood pressure

ü      Increases heart rate

ü      Changes breathing

ü      Reduces levels of certain neuro chemicals

ü      Provides a boost to the immune system

•         Sadness : The state of being sad, unhappy, sorrowful, or mournful. Negative emotion

û       The corners of the lips droop, and the       

bottom lip may tremble

û       The inner corners of the eyebrows are

drawn upwards

opposite effects of happiness

•         Surprise -An expression used when something unexpected or sudden occurs. Positive emotion

ü     dropped jaw, with mouth open

ü     lifted and curved eyebrows

ü     eyes, opened wide

ü     horizontal wrinkles spanning across the forehead

l      Disgust – Disgust is a strong feeling of dislike /aversion. Negative emotion

û       wrinkle your nose up

û       raise your cheeks

û       raise your upper lip

û       lower your brow

û       form lines below your lower eyelid

•         Fear -A feeling that something dreadful or dangerous is about to happen. Negative emotion

û       eyebrows become drawn and raised

û       lips slightly drawn back with an opened mouth

û       upper eyelids show

û       wrinkles in the middle of their forehead

 Anger -Anger is a strong feeling of annoyance and displeasure. Negative emotions

•         the brows become drawn together and lower

•         their lips will become set in a squarish shape, and pressed together firmly

•         their eyes will become bulgy

•         their nostrils will flare

û       their upper and lower eyelids will tense

need

E I ( emotion intelligence) a deciding factor of relationship management , SIP , managing others

1. Ability of one’s self to dealing successfully with other people (influence others)
2. ability to manage one’s self and other , motivating self  and others
3. understanding the feeling and appropriately respond to everydays environment

•         Emotional Intelligence doesn't mean being soft – it means being intelligent about emotions – a different way of being smart.

Bosses and leaders, in particular, need high EQ because they represent the organization to the public, they interact with the highest number of people within and outside the organization and they set the tone for employee morale

Empathy

Leaders with empathy are able to understand their employee's needs and provide them with constructive feedback

ARE YOU OK, I WILL HELP U UP

Helps managers handle

 adversity & set back

Teaches managers cope when change & uncertainty hits organisation or their personal lives

Help to manage effective relationship.

Help them being focussed and stay on track by remembering purpose & vision.

Working with people means working with Emotions

•         When people are working at a common place , emotions will play a role.

•            “Don’t bring your personal problems to work” is one variation of the argument that emotions are inappropriate in the workplace

CROSS(ANGRY)

SACRED (FRIGHTEN,ALARM,TERRIFY)

SAD(MISEABLE,GLOOMY)

OK(REASONALE,ACCETABLE)

HORRIBLE(AWFUL,TERRIBLE)

WORRIED(CONCERNED)

EXCITED(EAGER,THRILLED,ENERGIZED,ANIMATED)

•         Developing EI in the workplace means acknowledging that emotions are always present, and doing something intelligent with them.

•         People derail because of classic emotional failings, not the lack of technical skills

Components of Emotional Intelligence

There are five parts to it.

•         Knowing what you're feeling.

•         Managing your feelings, especially distressing (UPSETTING,WORRING)feelings.

•         Self-motivation

•         Empathy and

•         Managing relationships

Probabilities of not having an Good Emotional Intelligence and their consequences

•         While people have shown they can produce better results at workplace, many of us lack emotional intelligence.

•         We simply don’t know how to perceive, understand,express and manage our emotions effectively.

There are adverse consequences to have low emotional intelligence. These includes:-

è       Relationship Problems

è       Rage in the Workplace

è       Poor decision making capability

è       failure to advance in career  

EQ VS IQ

•         Emotional Intelligence explains why in-spite of equal intellectual capacity, educational background,training or experience some people excel while others of same calibre and high educational degree lag behind.

•         Emotional Intelligence is the dimension of intelligence responsible for our ability to manage ourselves and our relationship with others.

          

EQ

8 Tips to control your emotions

ü     Take 30 belly-breaths

ü      Get good knowledge

ü      Redirect your mind

ü      Don’t forget to eat

ü      Ask yourself: is this useful?

ü      Observe the feeling

ü      Stay in the present

ü      Find good ways to relax

love is a odd (PECULIAR,ABNORMAL)emotions : hardone too

like….WHEN +’S = love is a odd cognitive emotions (deep feeling)

Cognitive emotions ( inner emotions)ullunarvu

When you see a object you make like or dislike

Happiness comes in two ways in life ( 1. when get a thing/object ( noun) what you desire,

 2. when the event happens (verb) what you desire)

 In Love ( 1 & 2) which makes love a hard emotions

Love

You will see somebody

You will see somebody and smile

You will see somebody and speak

You will see somebody and mingle

You will see somebody and think of living together / that is called love’s evolution

Beauty of a object doesn’t lies in the object

It lies in the eyes we look at the object

Brain working can be determined by MRI (magnetic resonance imaging)

FMRI(functional magnetic resonance imaging)

Health mind & body

Body is made of universal byproducts ( 5 bodham)

• Meditation
• Yoga
• Vermam(108pts in body)  : Siddhar’s/ thirumular – (140 muthra disease free body)

                                                                                 Must practice 21days

Birth -------à       body , soul ,mind    ----à death

The soul/(spirit) is the place where we feel pleasure. (Relate with heart) /passenger
The mind is the place where we calculate how to receive the pleasure.(relate with /brain)  /driver
The soul (or in easier terms, "the desire") tells the mind what the pleasure should be, and the mind then has to work, like a calculator, on how that desire should be fulfilled.
If you take the time to analyze your desires, you'll discover that they are aimed at transient things - things which will eventually die away. Perhaps a moment enters here and there where you contemplate the eternal, but this moment is always followed by drives for transient things.
There is no eternal soul until we attain one in this lifetime, through working on our desire until we really want an eternal soul. Then, this desire expands our mind: it starts calculating how to fulfill this desire with eternal life.

The mind is what the brain does. The "soul" is a purely metaphysical concept.

mind is intimate

soul is subconsciously intimate and hidden
the spirit invokes the mind as a tool

At a minimum, I think that mind is what all creatures have (to a greater or lesser degree), but soul is a product of self-awareness.

Source(s):

Just my opinion; it's worth every penny of what you paid for it!

• Your mind lives in your soul, and your soul lives somewhere else. Your body is a remote sensory organism, that allows your soul to live temporarily in this virtual reality. You can access most of your mind, but only your mind can access your soul.
  
  No kidding, this world is a painful illusion, with intermittent moments of joy.
  
  Be kind to the other souls you meet, and read the Bible, it's the truth..
• Soul is indestructable unlike mind.
• Soul is the passenger in the human body, expecting the mind which is the driver, to take it to its destination with the help of the heart.
  
  Soul is dependent on us when we are in this human body. That is the reason it is said that we need to make best use of this human body. When this body is gone, we as souls will remain, but helpless.
• soul is a holly existance of human being& can't feel it physically, mind is a part of brain which directs the whole body can be identify physically.
• The soul is a lone traveller which changes its means of transport from time to time. The mind, being both a 'transmitter and receiver', can increase its breadth of awareness to become cognizant of the energy formations of things in this world that are not immediately within the perception of the physical senses.
• Soul is what you call as life force,energy etc.Now what is life force?It is the basic energy particle & it is a whirling wave.The size of the energy particle is very small. The siddhas of Tamilnadu say 'take a hair from the tail of a cow & cut a piece to the size of the diameter of the hair &cut it to one lakh portions & that minutest part is the energy particle'. Millions &millions of energy particles keep rotating in our body & so we can feel the touch, taste,smell, see & hear. The spreading wave which is being formed due to the particles rotation, when it passes through the brain is what you call as the mind.The particle has the power to record whatever you see,hear &everything you experience.This imprinted spreading wave is our thought. For futher details refer to the book "The mind" by Vethathiri Maharishi founder of Simplified Kundalini Yoga & World Community service center
• Soul - lives in heart
  Mind - lives in brain

WHAT IS LIFE

Life is full of ROLE PLAYS

 A individual performs a roles of father, husband, son, boss, superior, hero

He should play his role perfectly, he shouldn’t feel guilty to play roles

Cases in office

Performance in office

Self management give solution

Talks and pitch varies according to situation and role

Do appropriate roles at appropriate time

Is it misplayed it creates distress in life

Know your duties and responsibilities in each role you play

React accordingly

Listen , observe, react , smile

Relationship and interpersonal skills is success of roleplays

Success through self improvement

Continuous

Sip( self improvement process :kaizen)

character

if wealth is lost nothing is lost
if health is lost something is lost
if character is lost everything is lost

 

Definitions of Attitude

Social psychologists unfortunately do not agree on the precise definition of an attitude. In fact, there are more than 100 different definitions of the concept. However, four definitions are more commonly accepted than others. One conception is that attitude is how positive or negative, favorable or unfavorable or pro or con a person feels toward an object. This definition views attitude as a feeling or an evaluation reaction to objects.
A second definition represents the thoughts of Allport, who views attitudes as learned pre-dispositions to respond to an object or class of objects in a consistently favorable or favorable way. This definition is slightly more complicated than the first because it incorporates the notion of a readiness to respond toward objects.
A second definition represents the thoughts of Allport who views attitudes as learned predispositions to an object or class of objects in a consistently favorable or unfavorable way. This definition is slightly more complicated than the first because it incorporates the notion of a readiness to respond an object.
Third definition of attitude popularized by cognitively oriented social psychologists is: an enduring organization of motivational emotional perceptual and cognitive process with respect to some aspect of the individual’s world. These views attitudes as being made up of three components; (1) the cognitive or knowledge component (2) the affective or emotional component and (3) the cognitive or behavioral tendency component.
More recently theorists have given more attention to new definitions of attitude which has generated much research and has been useful in predicting behavior. This definition explicitly treats attitude as being multidimensional in nature, as opposed to the uni-dimensional emphasis taken by earlier definitions. Here, a person’s overall attitude toward an object is seen to be function of (1) the strength of each of a number of beliefs the person holds about various aspects of the object and (2) the evaluation e gives to each belief as it relates to the object. A belief is the probability a person attaches to a given piece of knowledge being true.
This last definition has considerable appeal because it has been shown that consumers perceive a product (object) as having many attributes and they form beliefs about each of these attributes. For example a consumer may believe strongly that Listerine mouthwash kills germs helps prevent colds, gives people clean, refreshing breath and prevents sore throats. If this consumer evaluates all five of these attributes as favorable qualities, then according to the definition he would have a strongly favorable overall attitude toward the brand. On the other hand, a second consumer might believe just as strongly as the first consumer that Listerine possesses all five of these traits; however she may not evaluate all attributes a favorably as the first consumer does. Therefore her overall attitude toward the brand would be less favorable.
It has been important to provide all four attitude definitions because the majority of attitude studies have been based on them.
Characteristics of attitudes
Attitudes have several important characteristics or properties namely they (1) have an object: (2) have direction, intensity and degree; (3) have structure and (4) are learned.
Attitudes have an object
By definition attitudes must have an object that is, they must have a focal point – whether it be an abstract concept such as ethical behavior or a tangible item, such as a motorcycle. The object can be a physical thing, such as product or it can be an action, such as buying a lawnmower. In addition the object can be either one item, such as a person or a collection of items such as a social group, it also can be either specific (Deutschmacher bologna) or general (imported meats)

TIME ; FEAR ; PUSH

Today I Must Exploit is a wonderful way to visualize how one uses his /her time. Each one of us has a different priority in life. As long as we are comfortable that we have focused our resources and our time to attain those priorities, we will never have any regrets about how we spend our time. If reading is our priority then so be it, watching a movie can also be ones priority especially if you are a move reviewer or sleep could be our prime concern after a hard days work.The problem is that we are rarely sure of our priorities and often we compromise on those priorities for short term pleasures.Students in particular are guilty of squandering away precious time by ignoring their studies and substituting it with frivolous pursuits like watching movies, TV, sleeping or shopping. For professionals, the danger is in wasting time in gossiping, backbiting, leg pulling, ego massaging, texting / emailing, indecision, etc.

FEAR is nothing but False Evidence Appearing Real. Let us view it differently. In any race, there can be only one winner. Does it mean that the person with the best timing be the only one to run the race? Sounds stupid, since every one in the race has a fair chance of winning, as they carry the potential to win and have thus qualified to be in the final race. A failure to win one race doesn’t mean that we cannot win the next race. If we let our fears appear so real, then we would enter every race with the belief that we will not win and you can be sure it will be a self fulfilling prophecy. Of course we must not be fool hardy and enter races where we are physically, mentally and psychologically not competent for the race. Our life is not a competitive race with one another, just a qualitative race between our own today and tomorrow. Making our life more meaningful today, more pleasurable for everyone around and pushing our own boundaries of excellence is what makes life beautiful.

I PUSHed myself into a corner when I got stuck in the rut called 'Writers Block'. Actually it was tardiness masquerading as Writers Block. You must be wondering what all this is about.

PUSH is Pray Until Something Happens. You would notice that there is a considerable time lag since my previous post and this post and when I grew desperate, I used the PUSH formula. It worked miraculously when a small voice at the back of my head kept telling me louder and louder, Stop Praying and start TYPING!

The secret of PUSH is in your BELIEF – Belief in GOD and Belief in YOUSELF. The miracles in your life happen because you prepare for them. Prayer is the ignition key to your LIFE, but your are the vehicle that needs to go somewhere; so keep yourself mentally, physically and spiritually ready. As the saying goes ‘ Chance favours the prepared wo/man’

3 E's determines ATTITUDE

3 E's determines ATTITUDE

ENVIRONMENT
EXPERIENCE
EDUCATION

TWELVE POINTS ON ATTITUDE

TWELVE POINTS ON ATTITUDE

• It is your attitude at the beginning of a task more than anything else that will determine your success or failure.
• It is your attitude towards life that will determine life's attitude towards you. Despite many people's belief to the contrary, life pays no favorites.
• You control your attitude. If you are negative it is because you have decided to be negative and not because of other people or circumstances.
• Act as if you have a good attitude. Remember actions trigger feelings just as feelings trigger actions.
• Before a person can achieve the kind of results he wants, he must first become that person. He must then think, walk, talk, act and conduct himself in all of his affairs, as would the person he wishes to become.
• Treat everybody as the most important person in the world.
• Attitudes are based on assumptions. In order to change attitudes one must first change one's assumptions.
• Develop the attitude that there are more reasons why you should succeed than reasons why you should fail.
• When you are faced with a problem, adopt the attitude that you can and will solve it.
• We become what we think about. Control your thoughts and you will control your life.
• Radiate the attitude of confidence, of well being, of a person who knows where he is going. You will then find good things happening to you right away.
• In order to develop a good attitude, take charge first thing in the morning. Do you say, "Good morning, Lord" or "Good Lord, morning?"

Read these twelve points every day for the next thirty days and see how your life changes.

ATTITUDE DECIDES

ATTITUDE DECIDES

People achieve great things not by their skills but their attitude. Positive mental attitude is a wonder drug. A person with a positive attitude is optimistic, enthusiastic and energetic. Our attitude affects our success and our outlook to life

What is attitude?

Attitude is our inward feeling expressed by our behaviour and also it is our outlook to life, based on our past experiences.

If attitude is not right then nothing else can be right. It is that, which draws people towards us or repels them.
A Strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug. Our attitude determines our approach to life.

It also determines what we expect from life? Whether we are preparing to take off or heading for a crash. In fact, positive attitude helps us to bring out our inner energies.

When a person's attitude is positive, it is conducive to growth and progress. If one's attitude intimidates other, even his best advices are neglected by others.
Negative attitude injects fear. A hardened attitude on the other hand leads to a closed mind

value of words

The most self 1 letter word " I "
avoid it

The most satisfying 2 letter word "We"
use it

The most poisonous 3 letter word "Ego"
kill it

The most used 4 letter word "Love"
value it

The most pleasurably 5 letter word "Smile"
keep it

The fastest spreading 6 letter word "rumour"
ignore it

The  hardworking 7 letter word "success"
Success

The most Enviable 8 Letter word "jealousy"
Distance it

The most powerful 9 letter word "knowledge"
Acquire it

The most divine 10 letter word "Friendship"
maintain it

attitude quotes

“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.” -winston churchill


“The only disability in life is a bad attitude.” -hamilton

“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” -Brain tracy


“Having a positive mental attitude is asking how something can be done rather than saying it can't be done.” -bennet

“A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.” Herm Albright quotes  

“Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thoughts, and habits can be acquired. An action repeated becomes an attitude realized.”

 Paul Myer quotes

“Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.” -

“Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”

 Francesca Reigler quotes

 

 “A positive attitude may not solve every problem but it makes solving any problem a more pleasant experience.”

 Grant Fairley quotes

 

Health / personality / society / Life

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.

2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar. 

3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants. 

4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy. 

5. Make time to practice meditation, exercise , yoga, and prayer.

6. Play more games. develop good immunity

7. Read more books

8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. 

9. Sleep for 7 hours. 

10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. if so you are insulting yourself

12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment. 

13. Don't over do. Keep your limits. 

14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 

15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip. 

16. Dream more while you are awake. always think big

17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 

18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness. 

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others as life is love

20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present. 

21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 

22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime 

23. Smile and laugh more. 

24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often. 

26. Each day give something good to others. 

27. Forgive everyone for everything.

28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6. 

29. Try to make at least three people smile each day. 

30. What other people think of you is none of your business. 

31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right thing!

33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 

34. GOD heals everything. 

35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 

36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 

37. The best is yet to come. 

38. when you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.

39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy. Last but not the least: 

40. Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose
always share your problems or happiness with your dears ………

lion or gazzele

Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up. It knows that it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up. It knows it must outrun the gazelle or otherwise it will starve to death. It doesn't matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle. When the sun is up you had better start running.

LEARNING : A LIFETIME PROCESS story2

A journalist was interviewing  the chairman of one big group of company , she asked what is the secret behind your success? he replied, "when i was young i asked my father,why should i study or learn?" my father took me to the vegetable garden behind our house. he showed me a green vegetable and said, " when it is growing it is fresh and greenish. the moment it stops growing further it ripens and then falls and rots, similarly when a man stop learning he ripens and rots" so learning is a lifetime process, fact is every moment of life is a process of learning

logic behind training and learning?


Once a person asked the owner of a small company,why do you train your people? what if they leave after getting trained?, the owner replied  "what will happen if i don't train them and they stay

A student  made  a egoistic statement to the master " i want to learn more and more advanced things and become a genious".master said 'ok' but let us have a cup of tea, master got a cup of tea and started pouring tea over that and it was overflowing .student said,master, it is full and don't pour further" . master replied this is the case with your mind, it is already filled with ego, you can't accept further knowledge"


let us change the focus and start looking at the positive side of each pearson , incident,action and everything and learn something good

LIFE AND ATTITUDE

 LIFE''s simple question?

Q : “Are some people just born positive       thinkers

             . . . or is it their CHOICE?”

 A : self  change...

      3 things of change : attidude,thinking,behavior

 ATTIDUDE

accept the responsibility  

i am responsible for  who am i,
 for what i have,
  for  what i do

U  -> CONTROL OF  values, discipline, mission,ownership

THINKING

Changes come from observing logically in every situation

observe your thinking for a simple issue/problem/situation

Manage Your Self-Talk

   

If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…

YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford

+ This is going to be a wonderful day! DAY This is going to be a crappy day!  -

BEHAVIOUR

Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline

Watch your definitions -

      they become thoughts

     Watch your thoughts -

      they become words

     Watch your words -

      they become actions

     Watch your actions -

      they become your destiny

 

 

 

 

 

SUCCESS

Thinking about SUCCESS

1. SUCCESS is TOUGH
2. It is a continuous process
3. success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced daily, failure is nothing more than a few small errors repeated daily
4. It requires  passion, plan, time, disciplines and energy 
5. sucesss not only lies in getting the best, but also in handling the worst
6. You need a mentor

SUCCESS comes only when  U have

• Clear Goal / vision ( always know your DESTINY )
• adequate motivation / enthusiasm / inspiration ( always self motivate)
•  will power / commitment / ability to take risk / hard work ( be committed)
• attributes towards challenges ( never give up)

by
success

7 HABBITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

•Habit 1: Be Proactive

•Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind

•Habit 3: Put first things first

•Habit 4: Think win-win

•Habit 5: Seek first to understand, then to be understood

•Habit 6: Synergize

•Habit 7: Sharpen the saw

Attitude decide's story1

GERMAN SOLDIER: sir , we are surrounded by enemies on all sides HITLER: "Excellent we can attack in any direction" . ATTITUDE DECIDES YOUR LIFE. think & act ,...... Excellence is not a skill,It is an attitude..

ATTITUDE

Attitude (psychology)

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An Attitude is a hypothetical construct that represents an individual's degree of like or dislike for something. Attitudes are generally positive or negative views of a person, place, thing, or event— this is often referred to as the attitude object. People can also be conflicted or ambivalent toward an object, meaning that they simultaneously possess both positive and negative attitudes toward the item in question. Attitudes are judgments. They develop on the ABC model (Affect, Behavior, and Cognition) The affective response is an emotional response that expresses an individual's degree of preference for an entity. The behavioral intention is a verbal indication or typical behavioral tendency of an individual. The cognitive(process of thought) response is a cognitive evaluation of the entity that constitutes an individual's beliefs about the object. Most attitudes are the result of either direct experience or observational learning from the environment

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